The Instant Fight Fix
Every time Sabrina and Josh had a fight, it was always the same. She'd bring up an issue. Something that was bothering her. Something they needed to talk about. But the instant she opened her mouth, it was like a wall would slam down between them. Because Josh would immediately get defensive. He would accuse her of criticizing him. He'd say she was blaming him for everything. Complain that she was always saying he couldn't do anything right. And maybe she should take a look in the mirror. Sabrina tried really hard. She didn't react. She forced herself to stay calm. She did her best to bring the conversation back to the topic at hand.
Don't wait for him. You have the power inside you to pour love, understanding, and forgiveness on what hurts. And, if it feels right, introduce him to ho'oponopono. Share what you've learned. If you want to be together forever, then forgiveness must become second nature. As you learn to accept everything about each other, both good and bad, you'll find that your love fills corners of your heart you never even knew existed. This is the love you've always dreamed of. A love where you're always welcome, no matter what you've done wrong.